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hey so, i just wanted to ask if it's normal for people with MADD to get angry (i.e to snap at someone, getting upset) when interrupted during daydreams?
Not only normal, it’s number six in the symptom domain of the diagnostic criteria. https://www.somer.co.il/images/MD/MD_diagnostic_criteria.pdf
This book was recommended to me via a Youtube Comment (lmao) and I am willing to give it a try if it promises to help me heal my trauma. I will keep updating this as I read this
why must he mention Achilles on a book of Trauma and healing, it’s making me sadder-
This book was recommended to me via a Youtube Comment (lmao) and I am willing to give it a try if it promises to help me heal my trauma. I will keep updating this as I read this
Look, the fact that abusers have their own trauma/history of being an abuse victim may be true. Abuse doesn't always make you a compassionate ball of sunshine, it can fuck you up and make you lash out, that's true. I myself have abusive tendencies that I am trying to fix because of how my parents behave around me. In fact, I probably wouldn't have tried to acknowledge my behavior if I hadn't realised that what I am being abused via the internet.
HOWEVER, this trauma DOES NOT excuse someone being an abusive piece of shit. Because what kind of monster are you to watch a child, YOUR child, cry and beg you to stop hurting them AND STILL DO IT. It takes another kind of asshole to manipulate someone into fearing you and disregard their own self-worth because they fear being 'selfish'. It takes a monster to brainwash a child into believing that being hurt by their own family is perfectly acceptable.
A person's trauma should never be used as a justification for abuse. If you have trauma/mental illnesses, it doesn't give you a special pass to be an asshole to others - especially an abusive one.
abusive parents will be like ‘you’re tough you can take it’ when they wanna abuse you, but if you wanna build your own life and get independent then its ‘nooo you’re not strong enough for that you’ll die’ so they’re teaching you that taking abuse is the only thing you’re ever good for and when you can’t take any more you’re worthless
Listens to music while studying: Ah nice soundtrack for my daydream
Doesn't listen to music for focusing: drifts into daydream anyway
its my party and ill die when i want to
me and the girls who still use tumblr in 2022
"describe ur personality" ok which one
how do people wake up in the morning feeling refreshed
Listens to music while studying: Ah nice soundtrack for my daydream
Doesn’t listen to music for focusing: drifts into daydream anyway
it’s exhausting to perform excitement and enthusiasm for people in order to appear normal